Is it really that bad that I just don't like to 'socialize' with colleagues? I mean, what's the point of wasting my time and energy engaging myself in small talks that lack content and to be outrightly frank, shallow? Is it really that interesting to pop over at multiple cubicles gossiping about everything under the sun, and worst of all at volumes so loud an entire office worth of people unwillingly gets to hear?
It's kind of becoming a trend in the office nowadays and it's really getting on my nerves.
As if problems with work and family themselves are not stressful and frustrating enough for me, I'm not interested in what you did for work the entire day nor am I interested in hearing complains you have of someone else. It is none of my business, and I'm guessing it isn't business to a whole lot of other people around you, so please speak to just the person you are speaking to (and seriously, I sympathize with that person too). Oh, and you don't have to quote everything everbody says. You don't also have to repeat after every sentence of what everyone says, especially right after they said it. I believe others have ears. Try to say something that comes out from your own brain once a while.
I too do not want to know which brand of food is saltier/ sweeter/ more sour/ tasty/ bland/ whatever than the other, so just eat your snacks quietly and keep whatever comments within your own conversation. It gets boring after 5 minutes. I can't imagine how yours managed to drag on for an entire hour.
I definitely do not want to know how pathetically you've failed in your self-deluded relationship, so please, just go home, sob to yourself and try not to talk about it during working hours and then stay back after working hours to talk about it again to the entire world with your intolerably high pitched voice. I mean, if you really love the person, don't complain/ boast (and you really do whine alot) of the things you did for him/ her. If you wanna complain, you don't deserve him/ her.
Yea, I sound nasty and horrible, but when these happen everyday, so loud and annoying that even music blasting into my ears from my earpiece and piling coming from construction next door can't block them out, the frustration needs to exit from my system somewhere. Haha..
If this is socializing, I'm sorry but to me, it is absoultely horrifying... I'd rather stay in my own world and be a 宅女 or something.. hahaha~
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